Any girl will tell you that the wedding ring proposal is important. Don't put it off until the last minute only to present her with something less than extraordinary. Your prospective bride-to-be can tell everything about you by: (a) the way in which you propose, and (b) the wedding ring. And to most women, a sloppy and poorly planned proposal is worse than a less-impressive ring.

Don't pay more than you can.  The fact is, some people just don't have enough money to buy a huge rock. You could save up all year and still not get that dream wedding ring. And that's ok. While your proposal should be thoughtful and romantic, it doesn't have to be an entire light-show and firework display. It should only take you 3 months to save up enough money to make the proposal perfect. It's silly to waste any more time than that just on the marriage proposition. After the wedding, you'll have between 30-60 anniversaries on which you can make it up. Get her that 5 carat diamond she's eying for your 3rd wedding anniversary.

 If you have true love, the diamond is inconsequential. The ring is nothing but a symbol of your union. Keep that in mind when perusing around Miami jewelry shops. If you're girlfriend is a somewhat picky person, and you don't know what she likes, play it safe by selecting a plain band. Tell her that you wanted to go shopping with her so that she can choose her own ring. Although this strategy may not get you the initial reaction you want, your partner will appreciate it.

 "To most women, a sloppy and poorly planned proposal is worse than a less-impressive ring."

If you work full-time and don't have any bills, you may be able to save up for the ring she wants. General rule of thumb: the ring should cost as much as a month's wages. This shows that you had the proposal in your mind for some time and actually took the time to plan it out. This is what your bride-to-be wants to see more than anything – that you care enough to make it special. Such a simple request.

In order to gain a better sense of what types of rings your girl likes, it would be in your best interest to go shopping with her one day. Pull her into a jewelry shop just “for fun,” and take mental notes on everything that she “oohs” and “ahs” over. Do this months before you even plan on proposing. This way she won't be expecting it. There's nothing worse than a girl who knows the question is coming before it even leaves your lips.


Miami Jewelers
H & H Jewelers (305-442-9760; www.hhjewels.com)
This jewelry store has been creating handcrafted jewelry for a little more than 20 years. Their rings vary from downplayed quality to exquisite extravagance, in every sense of the word. All of their diamonds are certified; they pride themselves on having a selection of jewels that is of the highest caliber attainable. Come and see what they have in store. There are so many rings to choose from, and such little time. The store is located on 3434 Main Highway, Coconut Grove, Florida, 33133.

Carroll's Jewelers (305-446-1611; www.carrollsjewelers.com)
Carroll's has been around for some time, serving the Miami community for more than 6 decades. In addition to quality diamonds, they also sell watches, fine china, and crystal tableware. They carry designer names such as Jose Hess, Hidalgo, Kabana, and Tacori. If you're looking for a good deal on something extra special, this is the place to go. They carry a wonderful selection of previously owned rings which you can acquire for a cheaper price. They can also create the ring of your dreams for you right on site. Their craftsmen are skilled goldsmiths and diamond setters. Email info@CarrollsJewelers.com for more information.

Mayor's Jewelers (305-667-7517; www.mayors.com)
Birks and Mayors have created a longstanding philosophy of consistent quality products and fine customer service. With over 126 years of experience in the business behind them, Mayor's is in contention as the finest jewelry store in all of Miami. The stores are currently run by former Tiffany & Co. executive vice-president, Tom Andruskevich. There are a few locations around town, so stop by and check it out!